The Power of Vision:
Moving from 'Sick and Tired' to 'Leveled Up'
Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired. . .
What do you do when you realize it’s time for a change?
Are you ready to actually make a change?
Discover how to transform DISSATISFACTION to ACTION.
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Have you ever found yourself sick and tired of being sick and tired? It's a powerful phrase that encapsulates a pivotal moment in many people's lives. In a recent episode of our Level Up and Live podcast, we delved deep into this concept, exploring how feelings of dissatisfaction can spark transformative changes. Here's a closer look at our conversation and the insights we uncovered.
The Vision of Change
During a run club meet, I shared my vision of competing in an individual HYROX event in Dallas. This vision wasn't just a fleeting thought; it was a vivid image of a future me—stronger, fitter, and more confident than ever. This vision became a guiding star, something I was determined to meet. But as my friend at the run club reminded me, the journey often starts from a place of deep discomfort.
The Catalyst of Discontent
My friend's words resonated: "I was sick and tired of being sick and tired before I got my vision." He explained how his journey began NOT with a grand vision but with sheer frustration and self-disgust. This rock-bottom moment forced him to take action. Reflecting on this, I realized my journey mirrored his. It started from a place of mental and physical discomfort, evolving into phases of improvement and, eventually, a clear vision.
Avoiding the Pitfall of Comfort
One key takeaway from our discussion was the importance of recognizing and acting on dissatisfaction before hitting rock bottom. We questioned whether hitting rock bottom was necessary to spark change. While it often serves as a powerful trigger,
the goal should be to cultivate awareness and make proactive changes before reaching that point of no return.
The Internal Struggle
Understanding and confronting the internal pressure of being "sick and tired" is crucial. It's a suffocating feeling, a relentless push that demands immediate action. We often avoid facing these feelings, focusing instead on external distractions like material possessions. But these distractions don't bring fulfillment. True change requires staring down our internal dragons—those uncomfortable truths we've been avoiding.
“That thing you need to look at is not normally very comfortable because it’s normally some kind of internal deficiency that we feel, right? It’s almost like a dragon you need to slay. And so you don’t look at it, you focus on what’s fun. What’s the dopamine hit? Oh, the glory of the car and the finances and the vision of that. But then you get to that moment of when that didn’t work. Okay, so now you have to face the dragon. Here’s the beautiful part. Once you finally face it, you realize it’s not a dragon. It’s something that you can do.”
Watch the Episode “Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired” HERE
Clarity and Momentum
Achieving clarity is essential for transformation. Once you identify and confront your internal struggles, you gain valuable insights that fuel your journey forward. This newfound clarity breeds confidence, helping you realize that the obstacles you once feared are surmountable. From this confidence comes momentum, propelling you toward your vision.
The Trap of Material Fulfillment
A poignant part of our discussion was the realization that material gains alone don't bring lasting satisfaction. Whether it's a new car, a bigger house, or a luxury item, these things can temporarily fill a void but won't address the root cause of our dissatisfaction. True fulfillment comes from within, from aligning our actions with our values and beliefs.
The Importance of Small Steps
Building a fulfilling life involves taking consistent, mindful steps aligned with your values. It's about showing up regularly, whether at a run club, in your business, or in your personal relationships. These small, deliberate actions accumulate, creating a foundation for lasting change and fulfillment.
The Role of Vision
Having a clear vision provides direction and purpose. It becomes your North Star, guiding your decisions and actions. Without it, you risk wandering aimlessly, repeating patterns that lead to dissatisfaction. Your vision should be tangible and compelling, something you can see, touch, and feel. It's this vision that drives you to make meaningful changes and stay committed to your path.
Actionable Steps to Transform Your Life
If you're feeling stuck or dissatisfied, take these steps to move from 'sick and tired' to 'leveled up':
Acknowledge Your Discomfort: Recognize the areas of your life where you feel dissatisfied or frustrated.
Reflect on Your Actions: Consider the actions and habits that contribute to your feelings of discomfort.
Confront Your Internal Struggles: Identify the underlying issues or "dragons" you've been avoiding.
Gain Clarity: Define your values and beliefs to understand what's truly important to you. (Download our free core values guide to help with this step!)
Set a Vision: Create a vivid and compelling vision of your future self and the life you want to lead.
Take Small Steps: Make consistent, mindful actions that align with your values and move you toward your vision.
Build Confidence: Use the momentum from your small steps to build confidence and overcome obstacles.
Avoid Material Traps: Focus on internal fulfillment rather than external possessions.
Stay Committed: Regularly review and adjust your actions to stay aligned with your vision and values.
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Taking Action: Live Your Values
Once you have a clearer picture of your core values, it's time to translate them into action. Here's how:
Goal Setting: Set SMART goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound) that align with your values. If "creativity" is a core value, a goal might be to dedicate 30 minutes daily to a creative pursuit, like painting or writing.
Decision Making: When faced with choices, use your core values as a compass. Does this career path align with your desire for stability? Does this relationship nurture your value of open communication?
Personal Growth: Look for opportunities to strengthen your skills and grow in areas that resonate with your values. If "leadership" is important, enroll in a leadership development course or volunteer in a leadership role within a community organization.
Final Thoughts
Being sick and tired of being sick and tired can be a powerful catalyst for change. By confronting our discomfort, gaining clarity, and aligning our actions with our values, we can transform our lives. If you're feeling stuck or dissatisfied, know that you're not alone. Reflect on your actions, find your vision, and take those small steps toward becoming the person you want to be.
Remember, wherever you go, that's where you are—so make sure you're heading in the right direction.
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