Unlocking Growth:
The Steps You Must Take to Level Up
(Watch the Podcast Episode Here)
When you're standing at the threshold of a new opportunity, it often feels like there’s an invisible door in front of you—a door you’re not sure how to open. It’s easy to freeze in place, to get stuck, or worse, to walk away entirely. But here’s the truth: every door that leads to something better—whether it's a skill, a promotion, or a life dream—requires action. And while those first few steps might feel uncomfortable, they're the most important ones you’ll take.
The Hard Reality of Leveling Up
Let’s be real—leveling up in life or business is rarely easy. It’s tempting to believe that "leveling up" is all about excitement and breakthroughs, but in reality, it’s tough. It takes energy, commitment, and a willingness to push through discomfort. When you’re facing new challenges, it’s normal to feel resistance or uncertainty, but that’s the signal that you’re growing.
This discomfort? It’s not a sign that you should stop. It’s a signal that you’re stepping out of your comfort zone and into something new. And if you want to unlock those metaphorical doors to greater success, growth, or fulfillment, you need to push through that initial resistance. The steps you take—no matter how small—matter more than you think.
Action Over Comfort
When was the last time you felt stuck in life? Maybe it was in your career or a personal goal you’ve been meaning to pursue. We’ve all been there—frozen by uncertainty or overwhelmed by the sheer number of things on our plate.
The trick to getting unstuck is simple: start taking small, manageable steps.
A lot of the time, people let their ego and pride get in the way of taking action. It can be hard to admit that you need help or that you're uncertain, but once you let go of the fear of being wrong, things become clearer. The key is starting small and identifying the one thing that’s been holding you back. Once you break it down into manageable tasks, you’ll find it easier to take that first step, and each action will build momentum.
Is Your Ego Holding You Back?
We all have a tendency to let ego and pride drive our decisions, often without even realizing it. You might find yourself resisting feedback or advice, thinking you already know what’s best. But that very resistance is often a sign that there’s something deeper to address.
The reality is that pride can prevent you from seeing the blind spots that are holding you back. Whether it's in your personal life or your career, the more open you are to feedback and self-reflection, the faster you'll grow. Ego can blind you from seeing the possibilities, and it can keep you stuck in the same patterns.
Here’s a reflective question: where is your ego holding you back? It could be in your business, your relationships, or your personal goals.
Once you identify it, the question becomes, what are you going to do about it? It’s easy to let pride keep us from asking for help, but in reality, seeking support—whether from a coach, mentor, or community—can be the key to unlocking new levels of growth.
Put in the Reps
Like anything worth achieving, leveling up requires practice. Think about how athletes train—they don’t become experts overnight. They put in the reps, day in and day out, even when it’s hard. In the same way, you need to put in the reps in your personal and professional life.
It’s about consistency. Success doesn’t happen in one giant leap—it happens in the small steps you take every day. So, if you’re trying to level up in your business, relationships, or personal goals, the question is: are you showing up every day and putting in the work? Small, consistent actions are what create big results over time.
Think about where you need to start putting in the reps in your life. Is it in your business? Your relationships? Your health? Wherever it is, start small. Focus on one thing, and do it every day. The progress may feel slow at first, but over time, those small actions will add up to massive results.
Are You Coachable?
One of the most important steps in leveling up is acknowledging when you need help. We all have blind spots—areas of our life where we’re holding ourselves back without even knowing it. This is where having the right support is essential.
Think about the last time you received feedback. Did you take it constructively, or did your pride flare up? Learning to be coachable—to receive feedback and apply it—is key to leveling up in any area of life. You don’t have to have all the answers. The most successful people are those who know how to learn from others, whether it’s a coach, mentor, or someone who’s been where you want to go.
Take a moment to reflect on your own willingness to learn. Are you open to feedback and growth, or do you find yourself resisting change? The more coachable you are, the faster you’ll reach your goals. If you're looking for a community of like-minded individuals to help you grow, joining a mastermind group can provide the support, accountability, and perspective you need to level up. Our LU+L Mastermind is the perfect place to get started.
Mindset Shifts: The Foundation for Growth
At the core of leveling up is a mindset shift. It’s about changing the way you approach challenges, seeing them not as roadblocks but as opportunities for growth. When you shift your mindset from avoiding challenges to embracing them, your whole perspective changes.
Here’s a key shift: instead of thinking "Why is this happening to me?" try asking "What can I learn from this?" By reframing your challenges as opportunities, you open the door to growth and resilience. Whether you’re facing a difficult decision in your business or a personal challenge, shifting your mindset will help you see things differently—and that’s where the real transformation begins.
Final Thoughts
Leveling up isn’t easy, but it’s always worth it. Whether it’s confronting your ego, putting in the reps, or seeking help from others, every step you take will bring you closer to the version of yourself you’re meant to be.
Take a moment to reflect: what’s the one thing you need to do today to start leveling up? Then take action. Remember, progress doesn’t happen overnight, but with consistency and the right mindset, anything is possible.
By embracing the discomfort of growth and taking those small steps, you’ll find yourself unlocking doors you never thought possible. The journey is challenging, but the rewards are beyond worth it.
Mindset is everything when it comes to growth, and your values play a huge role in shaping your mindset. If you're ready to clarify your vision and align your goals with your personal values, check out our free Core Values Guide. This guide will help you define what matters most and take your next big step with confidence
You don’t have to do it alone; share your journey and get support from others just like you. Join our LU+L mastermind group for the support and accountability you need to create a business that works for you.
👇TUNE INTO OUR LEVEL UP AND LIVE PODCAST EPISODE ALL about, well. . . Leveling uP!
In this episode of Level Up and Live, we’re diving deep into what’s holding you back from your next breakthrough. Many of us feel like we’re stuck behind a locked door, waiting for the right moment, the right opportunity, or the right person to hand us the key. But here’s the truth: you already have it. We’ll talk about how to turn THE key—your mindset, your actions, and your faith—and unlock the potential that’s been waiting for you on the other side. If you’ve been feeling stagnant, this episode is your wake-up call to level up, stop waiting, and step into the life you’re meant to live. Let’s break down the barriers and open that door together. You’ll Learn How To:
Overcoming Ego and Pride: Recognize and address ego and pride as obstacles to personal growth.
The Power of Mindset Shifts: Transform your mindset by reframing challenges as opportunities for growth.
The Importance of Support: Seek guidance and encouragement from others to aid in personal development.